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My husband wants to do a date night where we’d get a hotel room and be away from our baby for multiple hours but tbh i really don’t want to do that because I can’t be away from her
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Anonymous 21h

she’s awfully young, i would be nervous leaving her too just tell him that it makes you nervous to leave her while she’s still so young and attached does she take a bottle?

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Anonymous 19h

That doesn’t sound like a good idea. Tbh.

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Anonymous 21h

How old is she?

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Anonymous 21h

then don’t.

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Anonymous 18h

Is your husband mentally unwell? Thats a terrible idea

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

She’s 3 months old

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Then I think it’s reasonable to not want to be away for a few hours. But remember eventually you will have to transition

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

She’ll take a bottle in theory but sometimes it’s hard because she really prefers straight from the source. Yeah I’m going to talk to him about it more, I’m just really torn

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

Idk when a good time to make that transition is

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

Why do you say that?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Because the baby is really young and God knows what could happen to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

Okay yeah I totally agree with you, just wanted some perspective

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

No he’s perfect, he just thinks we need some “us time”

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