Anonymous #1 1d

why is that ew?

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Anonymous #4 1d

so do yall think bi people are incapable of loyalty or what

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Anonymous #2 1d

No, everyone is capable of being unloyal and a pos. But have you ever considered that a straight person might not want to be with a bi person.

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Anonymous #4 1d

well duh that’s the point op is talking about how some straight women act progressive but believe these kinds of biphobic stereotypes and stuff about bi or even bi-curious men

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Anonymous #2 1d

Okay and how is a lady supposed to know that the guy is bi or bi-curious if he fails to mention it. A progressive woman could say that’s great for you and explore yourself but you’d be a better friend than boyfriend since they don’t want a guy who sucks dick. There’s nothing wrong with just having a straight partner.

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Anonymous #4 1d

man OP didn’t even say it in the present tense just that they did it once and if that freaks you out you probably at least a lil bit homophobic/biphobic. date whoever you want but i’ve never heard anyone explain that specific preference without being biased

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Anonymous #2 1d

It doesn’t freak me out, but I don’t want to nor have to date a bi-curious man why is that hard to comprehend. Just like most guys won’t date a lady who had several trains ran on her.

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Anonymous #4 1d

no ones saying you have to date them in fact if you feel this way you absolutely should not i was just sayin that preference probably stems from some kind of implicit prejudice towards queer men cuz you seem to have some of that based on how you think trying dick once makes you automatically gay

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Anonymous #2 1d

Except I have no prejudice to the LGBTQIA+ community, I do hate when people say that because I won’t date a transman that I’m transphobic and that does piss me off. It doesn’t make you gay but you are bi-curious and also OP dm’d me and said they were cucked into it by his gf at the time because she wanted him to suck her bull, another thing I wouldn’t entertain.

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Anonymous #4 1d

mm nah i said implicit bias not that you’re bigoted. implicit bias is something we all have to some extent and it’s not even your fault it’s based on socialization in a society where queerness isn’t fully accepted

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Anonymous #2 1d

You’re assuming I have an implicit bias, because I don’t want to entertain a man who can be verbally coerced into sucking another man’s dick. Instead I simply want to date a man who hasn’t sucked dick, I haven’t eaten pussy like I said. I’m not attracted to it, what’s the issue?

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Anonymous #4 1d

girl you’re allowed to have your dating preferences but there’s a way to talk about them that’s way more tasteful than how you’re presenting yourself right now. do you think it’s classy to go online and feel so free to express that you wouldn’t be interested in someone in these groups in the way that you have? or to imply other women who have had more promiscuous sex lives than you are whores? you should hold your judgments and remember that, while we are allowed to have dating preferences, most

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Anonymous #4 1d

people don’t share them like this :) so as you’d probably say to others, maybe keep your preferences to yourself and stop shoving it in my face.

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Anonymous #4 1d

you realize attraction/preferences stem from somewhere right? biases shape attraction all the time. like i said not necessarily something you can control or that you’re doing wrong but if you think you have no implicit bias about anything you being naive cuz

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Anonymous #6 1d

There’s literally nothing distasteful about my comments, I have said nothing to be rude or condescending tho. No where have I been rude to sexual liberated women or men, just that I don’t want to be with a man whose sucked dick. You have issues.

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Anonymous #6 1d

yeah and that’s the other thing the bias was obvious when girl started this by saying if a man has even one time had a gay experience they must be gay 😭

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Anonymous #4 1d

then what did you mean by your first comment that you’d assume doing it once they’d want to do it again?

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Anonymous #2 1d

Being naive about what, not wanting my man to have sucked dick at one point in his life, this is a nonissue.

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Anonymous #4 1d

ok you’re entitled to your opinions. for you to come back to what I said and say I have issues. that’s not what we were talking about girl :) very respectfully, that is completely not the point of what I said. it’s the repetition of saying it over and over again. you can just drop it. it’s reached a point where, I’m sitting here and reading you say the same thing over and over again. girl, we got the damn point the first paragraph you said it. drop it. we get it. you don’t want a bi dude. which

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Anonymous #4 1d

is fine btw. no one said that wasn’t fine LOL

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Anonymous #2 1d

If they could hold the will to do it once, in OP’s case be told to suck dick they would oblige and do it again. If someone can cheat once they can cheat again, if someone can lie once they can lie again.

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Anonymous #4 1d

have you considered after trying it once one could realize they don’t in fact like it

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Anonymous #6 1d

Except #2 and you are quite literally making it a federal case, #2 accusing me of thinking bi people will cheat when that has no bearing on my initial comment at all.

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Anonymous #2 1d

Yes but I have also considered I didn’t need to try pussy to know I in fact don’t like it. I don’t need to be bit by a snake to know I won’t like it.

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Anonymous #4 1d

you do realize that if someone is attracted to someone because they love them, that’s the only person they’re attracted to because they’re in a committed relationship? like maybe the guy would be attracted to other dudes occasionally, but he would be in love with you, so therefore attraction to other people would be a nonissue. …like. it’s the same thing as saying that u would be tempted to suck another dude’s dick while being with your man… do u automatically want to do it just b/c its new?

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Anonymous #6 1d

Good thing I’ve never been tempted to suck another man’s dick who’s not my man, I’m straight but I’m a demiesexual no one provides a mental stimulation like he does that in turn arouses my sexual appetite. I frankly do not like a lot of people, cause like this interaction shows they prove to be quite annoying.

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No I have no divergence, pretty typical. I just don’t do random sex, and like I said I’m straight just demie; mental stimulation is very important to me. I won’t compare to asex or arom individuals because they go through something I don’t and I will never takeaway from their experience.

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Anonymous #1 1d

go whiteboy go

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Anonymous #4 1d

have you considered not all straight people are exactly the same way

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Anonymous #2 1d

I have, have you?

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Anonymous #4 1d

man idk why ppl downvoting you. just because you dont wanna date someone who is bi, doesnt mean youre biphobic. thats their preference. yall got your balls in a twist

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Anonymous #2 1d

yall have way too much time

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Anonymous #4 1d

personally. eating pussy strengthened my confidence in my sexuality. i did it, and i know i hate it

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Anonymous #11 1d

👀 okay I’m glad you needed to experiment to reaffirm yourself, like I said for me I don’t have to. Should not be hard to comprehend.

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Anonymous #4 1d

I completely completely understand!! You’re not the only one, don’t be made to feel bad for your own limits of comfortability and preferences

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