I feel horrible because I have a really close friend that I love but for months she’s been trauma dumping everytime we hang out. The whole hangout too. I’m a big advocate for mental heath but I’m also not okay and sometimes it becomes a lot on me too.
I think you should definitely communicate that. Ofc you wanna be there for your friend but at the same time, your mental health or comfortability shouldn’t be affected for someone else’s
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Anonymous#15w
Thank you 😭 I have to figure out how to bring it up. It definitely uncomfortable and don’t want to make it seem like she can’t count on me. But you’re right.
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AnonymousOP5w
I believe in youuu! I just don’t want you to put your own feelings on the back burner. I’m sure she’ll understand that while it’s important for her to talk about what she’s going through, it’s also important she listen to you too
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Anonymous#15w
You’re so kind! I appreciate this so much seriously ((‘: