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Talking to men is so much effort
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Anonymous 15h

Ill talk to anyone who talks to me but initiation is everything and thats usually the hardest part

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Anonymous 14h

Talking to women is 10x as much effort. Why do you think Grindr is so fast

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Anonymous 14h

Bc they suck

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Anonymous 16h

Nah I’ll talk about literally anything

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Anonymous 15h

and most of the time they irritate me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

Ditto

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis_never_dies 14h

Sybau

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14h

Kindest woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14h

Sybau too

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14h

Its bc men are down bad and don’t have standards

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Not down bad. We’re just reasonable. A 4/10 guy will be with a 4/10 guy or girl but a 4/10 girl won’t even date a 6/10 guy on average lol. And before you go “why are we rating people” it’s just a tool to describe Hypergamy

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14h

i don’t think that’s true lmfao a lot of girls date ugly men, average or below average men cause they’re not expected to upkeep themselves like women

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 14h

Lol “a lot” while talking about statistics. Men are expected to be much more also to have many more things you can’t control. Height for example

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14h

do you deadass think in terms of beauty men have more expectations than women?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 14h

Yeah. Beauty dictates how men treat you.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Same for guys. Beauty dictates how women and men treat you

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 14h

Yes. They’re less controllable

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14h

It’s true. Looks are a woman’s most important social currency

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

And men’s too. More so. Men don’t even wear makeup lol, all natural bone structure and muscle development. Think about all the guys that can’t control it

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14h

Okay yeah but if you’re successful or have money you can still get a hot girl. If you’re an ugly girl it’s hopeless fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14h

Men want to sleep around more often, and are not afraid to meet up. Women are less likely to want to hookup fast and are more likely to feel unsafe. And women have plenty of options off dating apps so the apps are skewed 80% men.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

You can still get a hot guy if you have money lol. Also NOT EVERYONE HAS MONEY. Thats not love that’s payment gng

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

i agree i meant does society have more expectations for men in terms of beauty than women, i see where u read wrong tho mb

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14h

He’s not lying. If a man doesn’t find a woman attractive most the time he won’t be with her. Women will get into relationships for shelter, if they kids, and to be taken care of. Most men date down and most women date up. That’s why they have a long checklist bs a guy just wants a woman who actually likes him lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14h

Ok but do guys want LOVE or a beautiful woman at the end of the day

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Love wtf. To love a beautiful woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14h

No thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 43m

fr

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