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downloaded some dating apps first date went terrible second date i got stood up. it shot my confidence and made me feel pretty sad ngl. i feel slightly alone now and i feel bad to even bother my friends so i’m posting anonymously. pathetic 😭😭🤦‍♀️
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Anonymous 2d

It’s ok. I had 10,000 swipes at 22 with a 0.05% match rate (inflated by bots). Posted my data online and someone said “this is statistical proof of how ugly you are”. You’ll be fine. I recommend you either keep trying, or just focus on irl connections.

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Anonymous 2d

You need a real man, like me

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Anonymous 2d

that’s how dating apps are that’s why i deleted them

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Anonymous 2d

Aww this is cute 🫠🔫

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

mmhm an anonymous man that’s always great

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

I’m actually a woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

wait i like girls too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Woah

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

🥺

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

fuck u it’s embarrassing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Wait I meant the thread between you and #1 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

mb i’m exiting the sadness and entering anger

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

And dw I get it being treated as a disposable option despite being a human with feelings sucks horribly and I too feel mad alone when I don’t tell my friends about it because it feels oddly ridiculous to tell your friends your upset over the actions of someone you don’t really even know

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Go through your feelings they gotta be let out somewhere just don’t let a few bad dates define your worth 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

☹️🥺

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Cute

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

yea i’m going to delete them

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