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it’s snr yr and i need to get out and go drinking and just be with people my age and have fun. but my whole life and college i’ve just worked and studied and something about drinking and parties just feels like such a low frequency. idk what to do.
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Anonymous 18h

Drinking and partying is extremely overrated.

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Anonymous 17h

Same here

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Anonymous 6h

UPDATE: I went out!! Had so much fun!! Nothing crazy happened but I met some sweet girls and now I know I really wasn’t missing out on too much! Definitely go out if you’re considering it. Just do it !!!

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Anonymous 18h

Dm

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

U male

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

like i feel terrible afterwards and it just makes me want to curl up in a ball and take a nap in the moment. i don’t get how it makes people happy and social. and everyone just wants to dance and then hook up and i hate being stared out. it’s just all so overwhelming and not really enjoyable. but i feel like im missing out maybe? idk.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

I wasn’t invited to things that often as a kid so maybe that has something to do with it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

everyone is very cliquey and it’s scary :/

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