Anonymous #1 4d

And honestly, I’m okay with that! Quality over quantity for me. If I join this sorority, I’m hoping I just find a couple of sweet girls. I don’t want dramaaa

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Anonymous #1 4d

Like I’m not super outgoing but I’m nice to people and pretty good-looking, so once someone talks to me first we’re fast friends and girls took an interest when I was single, but yeah it was definitely a situation where I kinda had to wait for the outgoing people to come to me

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Anonymous OP 4d

Oh I thought you were a dude asking about prospects lmao, but they’ll probably push you to be more social if you join since they want people to do recruitment and stuff, but I don’t think it’d be any worse than it is for any other girl in terms of like hazing and stuff

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Anonymous #1 4d

Haha I get why you thought that. But I’m doing “informal rush” so it’s way less chaotic and fast paced, I’m going on a coffee date with one of the recruiters. So excited but nervous. But if they offer me a spot, I’ll be super into all the events, I lovee staying busy

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Anonymous OP 4d

If you’re well-mannered and everything you should be good, my girlfriend was in a sorority before she graduated and there was definitely some more socially awkward people in there, and the worst I ever heard anyone say about that was like “she’s kinda bad at tabling during recruitment because she won’t flag people down” but that’s a pretty mild and constructive criticism I feel like

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Anonymous #1 4d

Oh yeah that’s not bad at all. Tbh my thing is I just have really really bad anxiety, but I’m actually very great with people, I’ll just overthink every single thing in my head. I went on a date with another recruiter last semester and they asked for me back which was a good sign of course, I decided not to because it wasn’t the right fit. This sorority is a tad higher up but I think I just need to stop overthinking it. I know I’m likable it’s just so scary knowing I am literally being judged.

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