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Confessions 1d
please stop it with the shitty answers oh my GOD give me some substance. talk to me in a way that shows me you’re intelligent and interested in the conversation. i hate playing guessing games with men
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Anonymous 1d

and they’re always like “haha you’re fun to talk to” like bitch i can’t say the same for you

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Anonymous 1d

Odd I find it the other way around, like asking me about my day is actually a terribly minimal way to feign interest in anything I could say

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

unfortunately too real 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

i mean, it’s a fair question. decent conversation starter. but it can get irritatingly repetitive.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

True and TRUE, ig I just meant like if you’ve asked about my day for 3-4 days in a row

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

what do you think would be a good conversation starter past that point, then?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Taking note of something I’ve said and sharing a similar thought/experience, expressing your own interests and we can connect through those, tell me about a passion of yours. Literally anything that would make us focus solely on each other for longer than 2 seconds

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

oh, for sure. those topics all usually result in great conversations. but i’m trying to think of what would be good to start with when you haven’t talked for a little while. it might be strange if it’s been two days and i were to ask, “so, tell me why you’re so passionate about X” lol

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