Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
You can’t get mad at someone for misgendering you when you look like a man/woman and you never told that person.
upvote 103 downvote

Anonymous 2w

Agreed. How can you hold someone accountable for something they did when they didn’t know

upvote 33 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 2w

No truly. I’m nonbinary and I used to be of the opinion that everyone should default to they/them until proven otherwise, but now I understand that just is not applicable to modern life. Your impression of someone should depend on how they react to being politely corrected, not what they initially assume about you cause it’s impossible to not have any sort of initial assumptions about anyone.

upvote 16 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Yes, I have no problem respecting pronouns IF I’m aware of them.

upvote 20 downvote