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Why is this the only kind of man who likes me 😭
18 upvotes, 19 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Confessions. "Why is this the only kind of man who likes me 😭"
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Anonymous 5w

I’m afraid of getting on dating apps because I feel like this is all I’ll see 🫩 seems like all the good ones are already taken

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Anonymous 5w

Oh god as a man this is a nightmare woman too

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Anonymous 5w

It’s because you’re hot and it might also be the area that you live in. I’m in the Bible Belt and way too many men are like this. Which is wise as soon as I’m done with college I am moving away cause I’m not dealing with this bullshit.

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Anonymous 5w

I hope the monogamy isn’t the issue here either

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Anonymous 5w

what’s the problem here?

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Anonymous 5w

Jackpot

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

The conservative and christian combo and the not knowing his dating goals. Christians are fine but not when combined with conservative. When that is paired with not wanting a meaningful relationship, it basically the last thing I would ever want

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

im white and brown mixed and i agree with the no goals yet part but everything else is not really making sense to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Christian conservatives notoriously dislike gay people, immigrants, women, universal healthcare, equal rights, etc.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

thank you for explaining why you don’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Honestly that's what I've been finding. Most ppl on the apps are not looking for anything serious. I live in maine so its like all i see besides the occasional performative artsy type or frat boy lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

I think they like the cute/ nerdy looking girls because we fit their tradwife fantasy lol. I also am blonde with blue eyes 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Oh lord, they want you for that too that’s scary

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

That sucks, there is actually a statistics that they go after women like that to try to manipulate and control them. It’s sick, but a lot of them don’t want to break something that’s already broken. They want to do it themselves.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

Yes and I can tell what they want from me immediately. The issue is that I have too much self respect lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Same, I have told plenty of men to fuck off, just due to their values.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

The best part is that I am probably what they are looking for because I want kids and a traditional family, but i just don't want them lmaooo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Dude, we need to be friends. Cause same!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

Lmaooo no

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