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I feel like I’ve never learned how to turn a friend into a best friend and I just don’t understand how it works :/
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Anonymous 2w

well if you have a secret to share with someome even if it is embarrassing i feel lile that makes you grow closer to the person

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Anonymous 2w

you gotta be vulnerable to build connection

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I do this yes. I share my anxieties and stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

then i don’t see anything you’re doing wrong, do you just feel more detached or?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I guess, I feel like I have to always plan stuff and put so much more effort than others. I see people with besties they do everything with and I struggle getting people to agree to something a couple times a week

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

maybe just hangout and do nothing? like don’t push so much pressure on planning things . My best friend and I literally will be together while also doing laundry or cleaning or rotting or watching a movie so it’s just less pressure to do something We will plan here and there but 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

But like how do you do that? It seems weird to ask to be with you while you do laundry

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Also when I mean “plan” I mean like hey let’s go to a dining hall or hey let’s go to the union

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