Anonymous #1 1w

I’m not but thanks. It’s whatever, I don’t mind being alone. My child self always had a feeling it may be like this for life so at least I’m mentally prepared.

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Anonymous #2 1w

Cant get married if no guy likes me lol

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Anonymous OP 1w

well if they don’t like you they aren’t the right one. there will be one meant for you 🤗 just focus on yourself till then, they always come up when you least expect it

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Anonymous OP 1w

What makes you think you’re not?

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Anonymous #2 1w

Oh I mean I’m just not liked in anyway. Like I don’t have the looks, personality, etc. if someone that may get married. I don’t look or act like someone that’s made for that. I’m just not made for it, it’s not meant for me.

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Anonymous #1 1w

Just not attractive enough for it, been also called quirky before so I guess I’m too weird for it. I don’t know, I’m not cut out for it. I’ve come to understand I’m not someone pleasant to be around in a romantic or loving context so it’s for the best that I stay single.

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Anonymous OP 1w

I think you just need to find that person that clicks with you. I feel the same way sometimes, that I’m too annoying or maybe I’d be better off being quiet, but I refuse to back down from who I am because of society. I’ve met some really cool people that way, because some people appreciated my openness and they’ve said they found me authentic. I think you should try that.

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Anonymous OP 1w

i think that there is someone for you if that is something that you want. that said, we’re all pretty young on this app. you don’t have to get married in your 20s. like i said before, the best you can do is focus on yourself, physically, mentally, academically, etc. learn to love yourself before you expect it from others

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Anonymous #1 1w

Sometimes society is right so I’ve just decided to keep to myself.

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Anonymous #2 1w

I don’t expect it from others though that’s the thing. I care for myself, I do all this stuff I enjoy and to be the best version of myself. I just can’t see myself with anyone and regardless, no guy wants me. It’s always been like this. Even in middle school a guy I liked in middle school cried cause he thought I was ugly.

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Anonymous OP 1w

well thats good that you care for yourself. i think that’s most important. and again, regardless of your past with men, you keep doing you. someone will come along when you least expect it. and if marriage isn’t what you want then you don’t have to do it.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Hey I mean, if that’s who you really wanna be: someone that confirms to society.

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