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This was me 8 weeks ago. Got one 🙏😃
Life is hard as a plus size girl yearning for a relationship
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Anonymous 2d

Congratulations!

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Anonymous 2d

Where did you find him share the method 💔

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Anonymous 2d

are you still plus sized tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Yes! Yes I am.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

time to lock in and be to your man what 2012 bitcoin was to the world

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

This is actually fucking hilarious but thankfully he likes me for the curvaceous fatty I am!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Girl he was an angel sent from heaven 😇

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

you are shallow

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

why am i being downvoted i was speaking under the pretense of supportiveness 💔 like yay you bagged your man now have a healthy glow up and everyone wins even more

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Because you insinuated she’d be better off as slim when she and her man both lover her as is, yes ofc health is important but saying “time to lock in” insinuates to change herself and become skinny

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

…because anyone is better off slim and healthy? so yes the insinuation was there. who wouldn’t want to become an even better version of themselves? and with a partner why wouldn’t you want to become better? it’s a win for the both of you. idk i think yall are taking my words from a negative perspective.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

slim ≠ healthy and anyone with a brain knows that. you can be thin and insanely unhealthy but nooo all yall wanna do is bitch and moan about the curvy ladies when YALL ARE THE ONES SIMULTANEOUSLY PRAISING THAT STANDARD

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

As the OP, I respect your opinion. But this man loves my body religiously and I don’t think he’d want me to change unless I truly cared that much. (And I don’t)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

uh…reading comprehension escapes you because i literally said slim AND healthy not just an emphasis on slim…talk about projecting insecurity. listen dude im not here on some vendetta against curvy ladies, im just making factual statements that anyone benefits from living a healthier lifestyle and slimming down.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

and that’s also fine! i didn’t mean disrespect in the first place, i just meant to crack a joke a few people have made when someone plus sized HAS lost weight after getting their partner. it offended more people than it made laugh though, whoops

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

because it’s preposterous and ridiculous to suggest a stranger lose weight. like get a life 💀 my god

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

reallly not that preposterous and ridiculous, we should probably normalize encouraging people to live a healthy lifestyle given the current ease of access to high fat and calorie foods. if you genuinely have a problem with me making that statement, then i’m afraid you’re defending your own shortcomings than OP’s.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

i was formerly a bigger lady. now i’m not. but i certainly don’t go around telling others to get skinny.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

once again…you’re focusing on getting “skinny”. which i never said, nor would i turn to someone and say that. i said slim and healthy. please, at the very least admit you misunderstood my initial remark

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

She dares gatekeep 🫵

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

Guys he genuinely came out of nowhere. We met at school and then he acted really flirty so I dmed him. So I guess, put yourself out there?

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