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Being a sex-positive asexual sucks
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Not ready to date for marriage when I’m only 23 and still on track to get my masters, but I can’t do hookups or casual flings either because nobody is patient enough to get to know me before trying to get in my pants. I’m down for sex but I can’t just see someone “hot” and be down to hook up, I have to connect with their personality

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

And it feels impossible to look for a relationship when I’m already a kind of person who’s very unpopular in the dating world, on top of that I can’t say the things people want to hear and actually mean it. If we’re flirting or about to get dirty I can’t say “wow you’re body’s so sexy” etc because I find nothing about bodies hot so it would just lead to my partners thinking I hate them or smth

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Your* you get the point though Like how am I supposed to date and fuck when nobody values personality, has the patience to get to know me first, wants a genderqueer person, and is okay with me not wanting their nudes?

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