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Confessions 20w
God I hate how guys get sexual so fast. Like dude I just wanna know your favorite color and if you like to go to the aquarium. I’m trying to build a relationship not a one night stand
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Anonymous 20w

Not to defend them, but I used to spend a TON of time stressing over talking to women, and I used to do really horribly. I’d get attached and lead on and rinse and repeat. I started having better outcomes just going for sexual relationships. They’re unfulfilling in ways sure, but at least my partners were accepting of who I was and looked like, and we both were honest about what we wanted/our boundaries. Just food for thought. A lot of men ARE pigs, but I think sometimes ppl do similar…

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Anonymous 20w

Other way around gng

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Anonymous 20w

favorite color? bitch what am i 11?

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Anonymous 20w

Shii I walked right into that one

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

stuff from a place of self-preservation and to help keep their peace

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

That makes sense thank you

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Anonymous 20w

Your answer was the one I should’ve expected😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

Interesting, yeah I’m in your original spot where I stress a lot over talking to women. I know I’m definitely attractive to some women, maybe I should do what you did. Any suggestions?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20w

Just stop doing things for women you don’t want to do. I just make it clear that I’m not interested in a relationship, and I’d only want something short term and sexual. Some are going to judge, but just move on. Don’t waste time with women who don’t want what you want. I’d say the same thing inverted to women too.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20w

Absolutely

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20w

#4 here is afraid of getting to know people 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20w

obviously favorite color was used to show how weak the connection is, if u dont know what color i like why are we talking about sex? use your brain

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 20w

i’m an adult i don’t have a favorite color

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20w

You’re a boring adult

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