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I genuinely wonder if any man has ever seen me for who I am and not for who I am not. Both of my exes have said that I’m “not like other girls” but deep down I know that I have so much in common with other girls. If you truly saw me you’d see that
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Anonymous 21h

But you can still be unique

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

I mean yes, and I would very much say that I’m rather unique, but I feel like people idealized me in a certain way and didn’t actually understand me because they had their idealizations because, as they both told me, “I’m not like other girls”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Of course. That’s romance. That’s sappy puppy love.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

That’s what real love grows from eventually

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