Hot take, but having a big dick won’t always make it painful, most men just don’t know how to use it properly cause they think that it’s all they need. Plenty of foreplay (and I mean PLENTY), being slow and intentional and I’ve never had any complaints
Too big of a dick and it becomes painful and uncomfortable. Some women may be able to handle it and want something bigger. But we don’t need all that. And a lot of us don’t want it either.