Anonymous #1 1d

it just feels so hard ik it’s wrong to say because even though i’m mad i still love him but just looking at him pisses me off at least right now would you mind if i dmed to ask sone more questions

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Anonymous #2 1d

People are imperfect, some people are serial cheaters while others might cheat once and regret it. There’s no guarantee that if someone cheats they’ll do it again

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Anonymous OP 1d

I would take a second and think is it worth it. You may love him, but after he hurt you in the way he did, is it worth it to try to build back up. It’s not an overnight process to forgive repent and move on

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Anonymous #2 1d

This isn’t true at all I cheated once and will never ever do it again I truly feel so much remorse for what I did and I can’t take it back but it won’t happen again

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Anonymous #3 1d

Can’t help but think though, that if your decision making process allowed for that to happen in the first place, where else , and in what other aspects of life could you make serious mistakes again?

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Anonymous #2 1d

I mean it’s understandable for sure but I think with everthing just because you do something once doesn’t mean you’ll do it again. I certainly won’t but I will say once a cheater on you they will always have cheated on you and you can’t change that. I think the trust is destroyed in that specific relationship

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Anonymous #1 1d

Is this said in an in general statement? Or from the perspective of someone who has cheated/been cheated on before?

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Anonymous #3 1d

That’s fair, and that’s essentially the point I tried to make, in that specific context of taking them back and having things ‘be like they used to’ almost impossible to get that can of worms closed again. But I do see your point, especially when young and dumb.

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