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Confessions 9w
do you think you can truly stay with somebody and be happy with them after they cheated i wanna try but idk how well work its not like he was cheating that bad maybe i can just forget abt it so we can go back to being happy like before
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Anonymous 9w

No. Once a cheater always a cheater. Even if not cheating, they’ve obviously shown they have 0 issue lying as well. Is someone who would easily betray and lie to one of the closest people in their lives, someone you really want to spend your future with? Have children with? Why wait for them to blow up an entire family years down the line by cheating again ?

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Anonymous 9w

fuck no

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Anonymous 9w

I cheated on my gf 2 years ago and we’re still together and happy. It’s possible, but it’s hard.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

it just feels so hard ik it’s wrong to say because even though i’m mad i still love him but just looking at him pisses me off at least right now would you mind if i dmed to ask sone more questions

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

People are imperfect, some people are serial cheaters while others might cheat once and regret it. There’s no guarantee that if someone cheats they’ll do it again

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I would take a second and think is it worth it. You may love him, but after he hurt you in the way he did, is it worth it to try to build back up. It’s not an overnight process to forgive repent and move on

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Anonymous 9w

Can’t help but think though, that if your decision making process allowed for that to happen in the first place, where else , and in what other aspects of life could you make serious mistakes again?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Is this said in an in general statement? Or from the perspective of someone who has cheated/been cheated on before?

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Anonymous 9w

That’s fair, and that’s essentially the point I tried to make, in that specific context of taking them back and having things ‘be like they used to’ almost impossible to get that can of worms closed again. But I do see your point, especially when young and dumb.

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