Anonymous #2 5w

nahh i gotta be twisted like a pretzel

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Anonymous OP 5w

Sometimes I just gotta get the job done quick so I can pass out. Other times I’m trying to see the sunrise inside you

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Anonymous #2 5w

i hear you i hear you

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Anonymous #5 5w

elaborate?

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Anonymous OP 5w

not a hot take, it’s vanilla for a reason. lots of people like vanilla ice cream lol

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Anonymous #6 5w

another hot take: i don’t think certain kinks work to “heal” or strengthen the bond. i feel more secure and safe knowing that my bf does not seek pleasure from harming me in the bedroom. i feel more bonded to him knowing that he doesn’t slap/choke me to get off

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Anonymous OP 5w

Anything kinky *needs* to be a two-way agreement for it to be ethical and actually kinky, otherwise it’s just abuse. Your bf would only harm you if you gave informed consent for him to. Discussions of safewords and limits should be had. I’m sorry girl that hypothetical man isn’t kinky he’s just an abuser 😭

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Anonymous #6 5w

i don’t think hardcore kinks that involve violence are ethical in the first place but that’s where we differ

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Anonymous #1 5w

agreed! i also can’t fathom unpassionate sex, consent for sex is an enthusiastic yes so i don’t know how sex that isn’t passionate would look like

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Anonymous #7 5w

That’s something you should talk to her about. The problem isn’t going to fix itself

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Anonymous #8 5w

we have talked about it many times. I mean we’ve been together for 3 years. It’s not necessarily a problem it’s just a compromise. Since missionary feels the best for her we usually just end up doing that and it’s whatever, it’d just be more exciting to switch it up more imo

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