
this is extremely true and more people should know this because i had to learn the hard way. don’t jump into bed just because you think you know or love someone. it’s a mistake and you’ll be destroyed when you realized that’s all you were good for in their eyes, even if you actually loved them.
no sex is absolutely not vital. being best friends with your partner is vital. if you can’t do that before sex then it’s all meaningless. sex causes a bunch of ‘feel good’ hormones to flood your body which will easily mask true feelings for someone. they don’t represent the longevity of the relationship.