Anonymous #3 2w

😭 this is elite ragebait. We both have our own struggles. Comparison is dumb af. Try educating yourself instead of just believing what reddit and podcasters say

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Anonymous #2 2w

We do both have our own struggles I completely agree to that. Interesting you say comparison is dumb yet a lot of women do it all the time by saying that they are better than men. I actually do a lot more research and read actual books and real world observations to come to that conclusion. It’s ok though I stopped trying to convince people who can’t admit they are wrong :)

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Anonymous #4 2w

Literally. If we are in a relationship we are expected to provide for pretty much everything and we get nothing

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Anonymous #3 2w

I can't believe ppl actually think women have it better than men when legit one change in our laws could completely remove our autonomy. And you should only believe that "most women" think something when it is a real science based statistic.

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Anonymous #3 2w

Because yall are dating high maintenance women!!! Me and plenty of other women prefer to be financially independent

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Anonymous #2 2w

I’ve be ever had any girl overly insist to pay for the first date ever and actually do it. Sure you can split stuff over time. But it’s more than if I was just playing for myself. I can be cheap for myself but not to someone I’m trying to date.

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Anonymous #4 2w

*never

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Anonymous #4 2w

Oh we know & some of us can maintain it. Also you might not be dating someone in your tax bracket or probably someone who you can afford to be with

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Anonymous OP 2w

Frugal ≠ broke

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Anonymous OP 2w

I’ve been on many dates and the times I said let’s go 50/50 never got a second date. It’s expected because most women believe their time is more valuable than ours. Also most want traditional values from men but aren’t traditional themselves

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Anonymous #4 2w

Agree, frugal doesn’t equal broke but Just leave her out of your frugality

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Anonymous #3 2w

The traditional values but aren’t traditional themselves is so accurate. A lot of women talk about feminism (which they rightfully should. I believe in that too). But then they do actually want someone to take care of them. I know it’s not always possible to be 50/50 in everything (not just money) which is ok and understandable if it’s at least appreciated.

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Anonymous #4 2w

She is left out of the frugality. That’s why it gets expensive 🙃

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Anonymous #4 2w

Then you’re doing it right :)

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Anonymous OP 2w

Thank you :)

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Anonymous #4 2w

I’m not complaining about the expenses. I’m just saying it would be nice to be appreciated once in a while. For once I’d love to be treated out to a really nice dinner and have a girl insist on paying and actually pay.

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