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Confessions 6w
my bf just raped me and I’m scared to talk about it it was so horrible he kept saying how I’m wet as an excuse for what he did and keeps telling me how that makes me a whore now even tho it’s my second body but I love this man so much can’t believe
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Anonymous 6w

Leave please 🙏🏻 Go to someone you trust. Its going to be heart wrenching but ease for your own health and safety and your future leave

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Anonymous 6w

Leave and report to the cops

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Anonymous 6w

I would let it go, but talk to him about what’s ok and not ok going forward. Not sure why you even posted this if you still love and trust him.

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Anonymous 6w

And for the record if this was someone you just met, I agree with the people above’s comments.

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Anonymous 6w

he would do this while I was sleeping

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

And there was no talk of like you can do that while I’m sleeping?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Girl even though it scares you,you need to tell someone cause he doing that and then calling you a whore is a horrible thing to do to you.Even you love him,people who truly love you back don’t rape their girlfriends

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Oh yeah definitely agree I was just asking cause like for some people they like being waken up to sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

well he would always say how as a girl I should just do whatever he wants since he’s a man and idk how to respond to that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

no we never talked about sleep sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

But he kinda hinted about that and always talked about how he fantasized about that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

That is disgraceful and disgusting that he did that even if he has a kink for. The biggest rule in a relationship is both sides must agree on whatever

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I know but I really do trust him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

If that’s hard to believe

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

oh no I mean it was a shock and scared me I cried a little bit but then he said it’s gonna be alright and he was almost finished so 😕

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

yeah he said he’s gonna take me out to dinner so I’m hoping I can talk to him about it and figure stuff out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Just remember dinner is never an apology for raping someone.I hope you are able to leave him if you can

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

I can’t I truly love him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

No you don’t. You’re infatuated with him. Drop that hoe

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

bc like what he did was wrong and is rape and this is a confession I thought this was a safe place

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Fair enough

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

like I trust him bc we have history we have been together for 3 years

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

Idk why he would do this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Not making excuses whatsoever for him because he should know certain queues, but Maybe he just thought it was ok since you have such a history. Again, no excuse. He should have stopped when it was realized that you did not like it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

sure but also I told him I wasn’t feeling it tonight and was tired and exhausted from my pet dieing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

He should have recognized that statement for sure.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

yeah I guess it was very traumatic for me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Glad you didn’t do a knee jerk reaction and you’re thinking it through. Talk to him. Maybe come up with a code word you say which also means the same as no.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

3 years

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Right

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I know you do. Its called stockholm syndrome. You fall in love and trust your abuser because hey he hasnt done worse right? He will… You will become isolated. Being in an abusive relationship is incredibly hard. You almost have to view it completely logically…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

well he bought me dinner an we hugged

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Is that good sign?!?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

no

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