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My(F23) bsf (F23) started dating this guy (M24) 3 yrs ago and since then she’s gained at least 250lbs. I’m upset that I let it go for so long but I’m really worried for her now and want to gently confront her about it but don’t know how.
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Anonymous 15h

Any conversation about someone’s weight is not going to be easy when it’s someone you care about. If you noticed that her weight is disabling her in any way then you can tell her what you were noticing. Imo, you should tell her how her weight is causing her problems, rather than just saying her weight is a problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Thank you that’s really helpful. Idc what size she is as long as she’s taking care of her health that’s all I’m concerned about

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