Can guys be cool and not view me as only a sexual object for once. I’ve cut off three “friends” now because they told me they want more with me and then got weird and scary when I told them no.
i’ve had guys i thought were my friends for years never speak to me again after i turned them down
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Anonymous4w
I know plenty of guys who are friends with girls and that’s all they want, hope you find more of the normal ones
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Anonymous4w
This is always after I made it clear I’m not into them or having sex period from the first week I know them. I literally set them up for success if they just don’t ask me to fuck.
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Anonymous4w
I’m processing this
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Anonymous#44w
Knew a guy for three years. Two weeks in I pretty much rejected him and he was cool about it but three years In he tried again and got kinda handsy and pushed boundaries after I rejected him again.
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Anonymous#34w
Me too
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AnonymousOP4w
that’s disgusting i’m sorry. it feels so predatory wondering if that’s all they wanted the whole time and if they even gaf about the friendship