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No one talks about how hard it is as a guy to say no. If i say no, she’ll think im gay or have smt wrong w me or im calling her ugly or fat or smt
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Anonymous 3d

but also everyone has free will so don’t feel too bad, it’s your life why should you spend it pleasing others

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Anonymous 3d

I’ve had to say no to a girl and I felt so bad

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Anonymous 3d

I get this. I think it’s hard for girls too, I don’t want to hurt feeling or discourage him from approaching other women, I just have a very specific type.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

I felt too bad and didnt say no. Ashamedly I just went along w it :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

I mean i meant like she was tryna get freaky but i wasnt cuz i didnt like her like that but she had self image issues and i didnt want to feed into that. I feel like approaching like going to talk to a girl/guy is easier to say no to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Maybe you’re kinda regretting it but I feel like if you really didn’t wanna do anything you wouldn’t have, your horniness won and that’s okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Yea i mean im not saying its sa or anything. I couldve fs stopped it, i have free will. Im just saying if like 60% of me doesn’t want to but 40% does, then based on not wanting to hurt her feelings, id just go w it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Ohhhh yeah no I thought you meant approaching people 😭I’ve never been in the other situation my bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

U all good😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

I’ve also been in the receiving end of this where a girl said she regrets hooking up with me when she was drunk, at first it sucks but you get over it pretty quickly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

That’s so sad, you should never have to if there’s part of you that doesn’t want to, clear communication is keyyy

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