Always striking up positive conversation, offering uplifting advice, words of encouragement, always so kind and silly and they ALWAYS love and rock with my 'silliness' Older white men on the other hand? Always telling me to tone it down/I'm too much/nasty cat calls/disrespect/vulgar language/married and trying to get me to be their side piece/etc- MY OPPS.

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this is actually so real,, i feel way safer with an older black man that an older white man. tbh i feel safer with black men in general, i feel like they see me more as a person you know? and they are never the ones to tell me they can "turn me" if i tell them im a lesbian

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