
Plus it's WAY more effort than you think it'd be, and it permanently alters your view of men. And yourself. And sex. And intimacy. And the human body. All in very bad ways. Now it's so common that the career ding isn't the worst consequence (the anxiety/fear/doom never leaves you tho) It's really how it ruins everything else that really sucks 😭 in under a month I was already damaged beyond repair