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Confessions 6w
i genuinely hate situationship culture
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Anonymous 6w

i just want to be loved bro šŸ˜–šŸ˜–

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Anonymous 6w

Perpetual non-commitment IMO is just as stressful, if not more than a committed relationship. Boundaries are rocky, consistency is no where, and you can be dropped on a whim. Situationships feel like two people using each other to me

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Anonymous 6w

same, iā€™m a lover girl šŸ„²šŸ„¹

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Anonymous 6w

Then just don't take part in it

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Anonymous 6w

ā€œI hate ____ cultureā€ just donā€™t participate then

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Anonymous 6w

same .

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Anonymous 6w

Same. I want love and it makes me not want to date at all. And Iā€™m gay so itā€™s even worse šŸ˜­

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Anonymous 6w

Situationships are literally not real love like wdym it takes you five months to figure out if you like someone???? That means that they donā€™t want you and looking for someone better but gonna tag you along

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Anonymous 6w

So donā€™t be in a situationship

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Anonymous 6w

RETWEET

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Anonymous 6w

I want to have a crush again.

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Anonymous 6w

same bro

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Anonymous 6w

Was in a situationship cause guy had racist family šŸ˜­

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Anonymous 6w

Same

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Anonymous 6w

About to hit a year with mine šŸ„€

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Anonymous 6w

Fr it has made so many people feel entitled

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

Thatā€™s exactly what it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

It's difficult to deal with when so many people are noncommittal

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 6w

ā€œHey are you looking for a genuine connection and long lasting relationship? No? Okay then weā€™re not compatible, byeā€

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 6w

Some people will say yes when they actually aren't šŸ™„

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 6w

I mean sure but I think being lied to and being in a situationship are different things lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

I mean if both of them realizes that they are using each other and dont have an issue with it, who am I to judge

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 6w

Thatā€™s a matter of lying, not situationships. Anyone who wants anything can lie

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 6w

as if we can predict this

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 6w

Literally. People lie. A lot. Itā€™s not just a matter or communication and honestly if youā€™re getting involved with liars

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

But then you really just hate liars

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 6w

Donā€™t have sex with someone until they have already made you a boyfriend/girlfriend. Most situationships start from having sex before that and the other being content with sex with no commitment

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 6w

If they donā€™t make things official nor treat you like a boyfriend/girlfriend for months before even having sex, then i mean yea

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 6w

Mmmm as long as I get to cut them off guilt free if I find out they're terrible in bed after we made it official

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 6w

Months?? That's strict lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

Ok weeks then??? The less u have it, the higher chance someone uses you so its completely up to you. I personally wait a couple months for sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 6w

iā€™m not gonna know if i want to be in a committed relationship with them before i have sex with themšŸ˜­šŸ˜­

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 6w

Thatā€™s fine everyone is different. Sexual compatibility is pretty important

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 6w

THIS

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 6w

I think the only time it took me that long to figure out if I liked someone, it was shortly after a breakup and I was more so figuring out if I was ready to be in a relationship at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 6w

Seems like youā€™re into it at this point

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