
what do you mean “why are they hooking up in the first place” lmao… obviously it’s fair to pursue a hookup with the expectation that the man you’re meeting would, idk, interact with you like a real human being? understand socializing as a necessary component of meeting up to fuck? show you a good time, rather than just sticking it in, nutting, & kicking your ass to the curb? unfortunately however, the reality of a fuckboy rarely lives up to the fantasy. that’s not women’s fault
I mean honestly yeah, I could care less what words have to come out their mouths after i get my nut out, i meet up to fuck and enjoy some sex, not create a new connection with some girl who needs aftercare. People need to stop having hookups if they arent ready for the emotional detatchment that literally is supposed to come with it.
No i mean why are they expecting random men to hook up in the first place if YOU JUST SAID that they “aren’t getting anything out of it”. You basically just called hookups pointless for girls so if thats true why are they doing it. Its a hookup its not that deep, small talk, fuck, finish, then leave. Nothing has to be forced afterwards, you literally meet up for the sole intention of sexual intercourse, it doesn’t get more point blank than that.
if all you want is to get off and be left alone, then you masturbate… duh. part of the point of hooking up is that you’re choosing to spend time with another human do you really struggle to imagine a functional middle ground between 1) actually dating someone or 2) treating their body like a blowup doll, zero actual socializing involved? cause that’s pretty sad
Woah pause, Id like to say that guys likely arent hooking up for a human connection but just for the physical connection of pleasure and touch of a body. Its a simple concept, this is why hookups with women get weird because they start getting wishywashy after you arent all over them once its over like bro its genuinely not that deep. I dont struggle to imagine that but I dont know why i would expect a RANDOM PERSON to give a shit about me after they’ve already enjoyed themselves and are done
Its called a hookup because you connect and then disconnect, its a simple concept to understand really, I wish people would stop expecting emotional support and aftercare in something that is literally its rawest form of a point blank desire for one thing. Maybe dont have hookups if you arent ready for the detatchment that comes with it
reading comprehension issue on your end, try again. a hookup isn’t pointless, there’s just nothing enjoyable about a hookup with a man whose attitude towards their sex partners turns out to be as primitive as yours’ or OP’s. OP in particular even made it clear that he’s not interested in the “small talk” part. again, reading comprehension please
There’s nothing wrong with having your own standards, simple as that, if people dont want to talk then dont talk, if people dont want to listen then take it elsewhere. Men control the nature of hookups so if they want a real connection or something to be established a woman can either say it first or find a boyfriend it’s that simple
Their not incapable of forming connections, they just dont feel like it, why would I care about forming connections with a random girl whos sole intent to meet up with ME is to get dick. Legitimately speaking, why would I want to form any kind of connection at all? That literally makes 0 sense. Physical is one thing, emotional is another. Its really just protecting yourself but you probably dont get it
in the process of attempting to make a point, you just keep on saying more and more misogynistic bullshit, which in turn affirms my negative impression of you and makes you a real pain in the ass to engage with. not discussing this with you any further. you’re clearly not attracted to women so much as you are to pleasurable holes—sex toys exist for a reason
If he isn’t interested then he isnt interested, be mad all you want but that’s his boundary, personally I just have sex because it’s fun, if I wanted to orgasm I could just do that in my own bed, I prefer to not orgasm during hookupd just to make sure nobody gets pregnant and so post nut clarity doesn’t ruin my mood. Most the time the girl finishes and im content on my own. Just because everyone has different views on hookups doesn’t make it right or wrong. Its just their preference.
Misogynistic or not, that’s literally been a recurring thing I consistently see on the internet and from stories I hear, women get upset men aren’t emotionally connected after a hookup and cry about it like the whole point of the hookup isnt to fuck and part ways. If you want people to care about you go fuck your friends or make a fwb relationship. Its a simple concept to understand but expecting random people to give a rats ass about me isn’t something I would expect.
Theres literally another girl in the comments that agrees with what the guy says, you just expect everyone random to greet you with the courtesy of a conversation and kindness like that isnt just putting on a front to act like you care about someone when you don’t. Its literally two minutes of bullshiz for nothing. Hookups arent a hard concept to understand, not everyone wants to talk some people want their pleasure and to go home.
Thats because sex for them in that instance is not emotional at all, its a physical urge and once it’s satiated the desire is gone so we want to be by ourselves. Not necessarily the same for most women at least not biologicalally. Its literally in your dna to not make it sound horrible but some can do it and some cant.