
what do you mean “why are they hooking up in the first place” lmao… obviously it’s fair to pursue a hookup with the expectation that the man you’re meeting would, idk, interact with you like a real human being? understand socializing as a necessary component of meeting up to fuck? show you a good time, rather than just sticking it in, nutting, & kicking your ass to the curb? unfortunately however, the reality of a fuckboy rarely lives up to the fantasy. that’s not women’s fault
I mean honestly yeah, I could care less what words have to come out their mouths after i get my nut out, i meet up to fuck and enjoy some sex, not create a new connection with some girl who needs aftercare. People need to stop having hookups if they arent ready for the emotional detatchment that literally is supposed to come with it.
No i mean why are they expecting random men to hook up in the first place if YOU JUST SAID that they “aren’t getting anything out of it”. You basically just called hookups pointless for girls so if thats true why are they doing it. Its a hookup its not that deep, small talk, fuck, finish, then leave. Nothing has to be forced afterwards, you literally meet up for the sole intention of sexual intercourse, it doesn’t get more point blank than that.
reading comprehension issue on your end, try again. a hookup isn’t pointless, there’s just nothing enjoyable about a hookup with a man whose attitude towards their sex partners turns out to be as primitive as yours’ or OP’s. OP in particular even made it clear that he’s not interested in the “small talk” part. again, reading comprehension please
There’s nothing wrong with having your own standards, simple as that, if people dont want to talk then dont talk, if people dont want to listen then take it elsewhere. Men control the nature of hookups so if they want a real connection or something to be established a woman can either say it first or find a boyfriend it’s that simple
Their not incapable of forming connections, they just dont feel like it, why would I care about forming connections with a random girl whos sole intent to meet up with ME is to get dick. Legitimately speaking, why would I want to form any kind of connection at all? That literally makes 0 sense. Physical is one thing, emotional is another. Its really just protecting yourself but you probably dont get it
If he isn’t interested then he isnt interested, be mad all you want but that’s his boundary, personally I just have sex because it’s fun, if I wanted to orgasm I could just do that in my own bed, I prefer to not orgasm during hookupd just to make sure nobody gets pregnant and so post nut clarity doesn’t ruin my mood. Most the time the girl finishes and im content on my own. Just because everyone has different views on hookups doesn’t make it right or wrong. Its just their preference.