hot take: i will always choose my wife over my kids, especially like through labor like you can always we another kid but if something happens to her then you’ll never have another kid with her, might not be a popular opinion but it’s how i feel
Ngl I agree, but if my future partner explicitly says their medical wishes are to prioritize the child, it’s my legal duty to respect that
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Anonymous5w
I agree with your take on this. -OP
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Anonymous5w
My wife all day.
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Anonymous#15w
can always make more kids but you’ll never find that same wife ever again but if you leave the kid then you can always just try again yk
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AnonymousOP5w
In this scenario yes, I’d choose the spouse.
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Anonymous#25w
but that’s your wife, plus how are you jus going to let her go
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AnonymousOP5w
Bc it’s my legal duty as her medical power of attorney to uphold her choices. Same way I’d uphold a DNR if they chose to have one. It’s not an easy choice. It’s the most difficult thing I’d ever have to do. But it’s the choice that has to be made