I feel like a lot of guys would really be more self confident in their attractiveness if they talked to women more about what they actually find attractive. Because what a lot of women are into is very different from what men THINK women are into.
The problem is that women aren’t truthful about what they want. When you ask they’ll try to answer according to their values rather than according to their beliefs
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Anonymous1d
exactlyyy, these guys are catering to the male gaze so much that they forget that we perceive them differently as their fellow male counterparts.