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Confessions 9w
Waiting until marriage isn’t about the sex. It’s about commitment to the future spouse because you respect that deeply. It’s about being disciplined in your walk and saving yourself for them. Whether the sex is good or not is not the priority 1/2
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Confessions 9w
What if you wait for marriage and it ends up being horrible
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Anonymous 9w

2/2 if two people genuinely love each other, they’ll communicate, work around the issues, and find ways to please each other

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Anonymous 9w

Because I never had it and I see nothing wrong with that 🤷‍♂️ I’m saving myself for my future spouse because I’m committed to that person. It’s not about what I get out of it. It’s about actually loving that person.

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Anonymous 9w

Well I’m looking for someone who matches my values so not gaf isn’t gonna cut it for me.

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Anonymous 9w

Obviously 👍

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Anonymous 9w

There’s always workarounds when two people love each other. Not every relationship is gonna be perfect obviously, and it’s not about the sex. I don’t get married for sex with another virgin, that’s purity rape culture. I’m saving myself because I am doing it for their sake and I hope, not expect, them to do it for mine. Again, if getting that nut in matters so much, most of us know how to masturbate at this point.

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