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is it a red flag if he takes u out to dinner but doesn’t buy u flowers?
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Anonymous 19h

Nooo flowers aren’t a first date thing

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Anonymous 18h

flowers are a gesture that they want to get you something nice but if he doesn’t know what kind of flowers you like then he wants to get to know you more so he gets the right ones like on a first date i always ask what kind of flowers you like so i know what to get so you’re most happy

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Anonymous 16h

No what???

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

oh? okay. my ex got me flowers every date hahah

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Yeah not a red flag

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

okkk that makes me feel a lot better

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

awwww i wish he asked me questions abt myself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

he didn’t ask you questions about yourself?? that’s quite literally the point of a first date.. like for you to know how the person is in a date setting and in person and learn more about them unless… jesus that’s fucked

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

no not rlly. he’s pretty quiet and isn’t great at talking so i did most of the talking and i ask him all the questions

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

wait now i’m worried should i be worried

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

nothing to worry about yet it was just a date

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