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I don’t get why it’s such big deal that I have a guy bsf. I don’t get why people always claim it’s “inevitable” that I’m gonna cheat on my boyfriend. I’m not. I’m not a cheater. That’s gross. I’ve been friends with him since I was 3, he’s a brother to me.
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Anonymous 4w

I don’t get it either. It’s weird when people say that some people can’t just be friends

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Anonymous 4w

It's bc if they had a girl best friend they'd cheat It's all projection I think ppl moreso assume your guy bestie is gonna try to get you to cheat or leave your bf for him. And they're thinking through the male lens of 'If I had a female bestie and she did that, I wouldn't even think twice!' Just like how they think girls go out to clubs/bars for male attention/to plot on men. They don't realize that we are not at all the same when it comes to that stuff.

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Anonymous 4w

this is how i feel w my two guy friends even tho im single, they're literally the big brothers i never had

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

literally!

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