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Confessions 16w
is it wrong to talk to multiple guys at once/have multiple talking stages until the one you want the most asks you out?
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Anonymous 16w

No that’s kinda the point of the “talking stage” you’re just feeling things out before actually committing to a relationship. It makes sense to talk to multiple people and figure out what you really want.

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Anonymous 16w

I always assume the other person is talking to multiple people tbh

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Anonymous 16w

Personally I think so yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

oh, hm ok

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

I realize that exclusivity may not necessarily be established, but if I’m talking to someone and find out I’m just part of a roster, whose to say I’m not your backup if things move forward?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

yea me too. so that’s why i never put just all of my eggs in one basket.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

no i completely get that and agree with you. the dating scene rn is just super jacked out and it’s so hard to acc trust someone when they say no one else is involved

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