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i believe men are biologically wired to be submissive and something happened to make us believe theyre not. theyre dedicated to women. straight men are dedicated to women, women are often dedicated to only one man.
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Anonymous 1d

I mean *I* am definitely wired to be a submissive man but I wouldn’t be applying that to all the other dudes

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Anonymous 18h

this is just fake woke bioessentialism

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Anonymous 1d

Good thing this is just your belief

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Anonymous 1d

This is dumb but there’s probably a good point buried in it

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Anonymous 1d

men are not dedicated to women, most straight men will only dedicate themselves to… themselves, or other men

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

and that is?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

women mature faster than men. men are more likely to hurt themselves while a woman they're attracted to is present. women outperform men in school. "queens" exist in insect societies but "kings" do not. in many cases of "alpha males" getting to mate with females in the wild is the male having to prove his capabilities before the female will mate with him. unmarried childless women are the happiest demographic while bachelor men are the least. if women were submissive we wouldve done it already

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I’m a biologist, there’s literally termite kings that live alongside termite queens.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Bioessentialism is generally speaking going to be at best very reductive and at worst wildly misleading

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Male animals usually have to prove themselves to females because females have a higher reproductive investment, thus it is more important for them to be more selective in their mate choices. But there are some species where females display for males, it’s just less common.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

what species?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

It’s mostly in birds. Phalaropes, for example. The males raise the young so they are small and drab, while the larger more colorful females display to impress them. In black coucals and jacanas the larger, more aggressive females maintain a territorial harem of males who raise the eggs.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

In these birds, it’s the males providing the higher reproductive investment, because they are the ones raising the eggs. Thus they need to be more selective. And the sex raising the eggs usually needs more drab plumage to hide from predators, while the non-parental sex can afford to have more elaborate displays.

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