Anonymous #1 2w

Being a man hater and knowingly in a relationship with a MAN. Will have consequences, it’s like saying I hate my boyfriend but hes mine though, like to expect something good to come of that is dumb. I’d cheat.

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Anonymous OP 2w

Just break up why cheat.

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Anonymous #2 2w

Cause you need to understand that behavior is literally going to make people run from you, thinking that telling your teacher you hate them and thinking they’ll bump up your 69.5 to a 70 is dumb. Why would i treat you good when you talk badly about all of me

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Anonymous OP 2w

I personally don’t see myself as a man hater, but why stoop lower than their level? Why not walk away with your integrity intact? When someone acts shitty towards you and you respond back by doing something even worse like cheating- they aren’t going to think about their actions, instead they are going to think about what you did. Vs if you acted in integrity, they’d have nothing to point the finger at you.

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Anonymous #1 2w

If you do nothing they will forever stay the same person, integrity means nothing when we all die at some point. I’m not excusing someones actions with “well their just like that”, like no bruh DO BETTER, I literally don’t care, I would tell them after I cheated because of that exact reason and because they are a man hater like if you think that WONT affect your relationship in some way that’s dumb.

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Anonymous #1 2w

People always pull that morally higher ground bs when legitmately it’s just letting the wrong person get away with their un acceptable behavior, and it does somewhat go on both sides. But I would be extremely stupid to believe that if my girlfriend was previously a serial cheater that she wouldn’t cheat on me so why would I think her being a man hater won’t eventually pivot towards me if it already hasnt happen.

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Anonymous #1 2w

The morally higher ground aint never done nothing but let wrong doings go unpunished, im not that guy.

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Anonymous OP 2w

No one is asking u treat them good, but that doesn’t mean to treat them badly. Ur example isn’t what ur saying. It would like you call ur teacher mean so the teacher decides to fail u on the upcoming exam. In what world is that okay.

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Anonymous #2 2w

Think about this for a second, why should your partner take the relationship you have with them seriously when essentially they have said they hate everything about you as a MAN. There’s is literally no leeway to treat them good because they hate you, I would treat them as a joke and hope they learn a thing or two. Thats stupid asf to be proclaiming yourself as a man hater and then date a man like what?

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Anonymous #2 2w

The amount of stupidity it sounds to pursue the exact thing you hate is utterly laughable. Expecting anything other than low effort from a group of people you have automatically deemed as a villain is dumb. You don’t shout in the hood that you hate black people and then get surprised when one shoots you.

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Anonymous OP 2w

You’re not God, it’s not your job to punish people. And your punishment isn’t going to teach them anything. Have you tried like idk communicating that her hating men is wrong, tried challenging the perspective, than communicate you feel disrespected and walk away. If enough guys walk away from her and actually communicate their issue like an adult. she’ll learn to change. And if she doesn’t that’s not your problem. I feel like you’re trying to justify cheating.

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Anonymous #1 2w

Imagine being married to someone like you, where anytime they have an issue they cheat on you instead of communicating their issue - and then proceed to victim blame you. Whenever you try to communicate how stupid and harmful that logic is. They tell you that basically you’re a child that deserved a punishment. Like wtf bro.

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Anonymous #1 2w

Who said I was god? and no it’s not my job, that’s just what I would do, I wouldn’t marry a woman like this because I would never take her seriously, I’ve dated a “manhater” woman before and let me tell you it aint fun, You question yourself and your relationship if it really even means anything or if they really want you for you and not just some benefit like hell no I wouldnt deal with that again. I would just leave her or cheat on her first and then leave. You think I didn’t try that? Have-

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Anonymous #1 2w

open communication to still end up with some man hating bs and “I dont care about my male friends”, but i was your friend once too? Yeah fuck no get outta here, im not excusing either behavior but expecting something good from a group of people you literally dislike sounds dumb as shiz.

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Anonymous #1 2w

Like I said before, you dont walk in the hood and say you hate black people then get surprised when somebody shots you, peak stupidity bruh keep playing the dummy game and see what happens. Im tired of letting and hearing peoples actions go unpunished and not confronted too much like they didn’t know exactly what they were doing. Gtfo here, a black woman doesn’t date a racist white boyfriend and get surprised when he calls her a slur.

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Anonymous OP 2w

I’m sorry she didn’t listen to you, but that’s no excuse to cheat. Walking away is appropriate and mature. You say you aren’t excusing cheating but continue to threaten it. Cheating shouldn’t be used as a punishment- period. It’s a stupid and immature way to deal with conflict. Communicate like an adult. I don’t care if it “didn’t work” walk away. You hate women just as much as a manhater -if you think cheating/traumatizing someone is an appropriate way to deal with conflict.

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Anonymous #1 2w

Your logic doesn’t make any sense. If someone hates you (probably due to some kind of trauma) why reaffirm them? By cheating (going extreme) you’re basically saying -you’re right! I do suck! I’ll retraumatize you to prove it! That’ll show you! Like what??

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Anonymous #1 2w

Atp its not even reaffirming, they already believed such would happen so when it does or doesn’t it dont change the way they think. I think you are forgetting that when people WANT to change they WILL do it. It’s that simple. I wouldn’t be dating women and trying to take them to a serious relationship KNOWING that I literally hate them. I only have as much respect as the person I talk to has for me and in this situation it’s literally 0. Get a life.

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Anonymous #1 2w

Traumatizing someone for something they literally seem to wanted to happen is kinda asking for it atp. Like you don’t play hockey if you hate hockey, you dont eat Mcdonalds if you hate mcdonalds, and you don’t date men if you hate men. Its very simple so either someone is lying or somebody is a fkin joke. Idc what trauma u had, get it fixed and patched up before me cause im not about to deal with some bs excuses about “all men are evil” and “all men suck” knowing you’re just trying to degrade-

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Anonymous #1 2w

me and bring me down with you. This is 2026 and I ain’t superman, She can save herself and go visit a therapist cause that mental work is some bullshit I would NEVER do for another woman again. Gtfo here.

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Anonymous #1 2w

She is right to think that men suck if that’s exactly how her perception and mentality is and if that’s all she can see then I’ll just embody it because think about this, millions of people exist with individualistic lives and habits, if you can’t stop for a moment to think and not project your insecurities or say something stupid then hit the road. We getting too grown for this, childish actions and you a whole adult.

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Anonymous OP 2w

Dude this is pathetic. You clearly just want an excuse to cheat. Talking to a ghetto brick wall.

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Anonymous #1 2w

No if I was gonna cheat I would just do it, I feel like if you cheat you dont care abt your partner so that’s two different situationsz

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Anonymous #1 2w

and why would you pursue a group of people you hate?

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