Anonymous #1 1d

Like I want to sooo bad but its ideologies just don’t match up with me😞 knowing me im going to get attached by just kissing

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Anonymous OP 1d

😭 I feel the exact same. I feel like I couldn’t keep it casual like most people want to

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Anonymous #1 1d

But at the same time I really want to just be able to get with someone quick or like be fwb with someone sometimes

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Anonymous #1 1d

Omg funny enough someone just texted me saying why don’t I try an FWB but like I genuinely cannot imagine fucking my friends like it feels wrong in my heart

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Anonymous OP 1d

That’s also what I struggle with too. I had one friend who told me some sexual stuff and we had like those types of conversations (like about habits and preferences, not sexting), so I thought maybe with her it would’ve been ok but I never ended up asking

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Anonymous #1 1d

Hmm maybe you should try it with that friend. Maybe drop hints or something but also take my advice with a grain of salt cus I’m clearly not the best messenger. But if I was in your position I’d lowk just start playing around with it

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Anonymous OP 1d

Yeah I think I might soon. We hasn’t spoken in a while but she followed a semi secret Instagram account I had to post stuff related to my major, and I recently swapped to the same major as her and she talked to me about that. Last time she talked to me before that was how she was thinking about buying a vibe 😭 so maybe there’s still that chance

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Anonymous #1 1d

I’m bad at reading stuff too though and I don’t want to be too forward with anyone

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Anonymous #1 1d

Praying for you🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

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Anonymous OP 1d

Thanks twin you too 🙏

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Anonymous OP 1d

a fwb isn’t a regular friend like you normally wouldn’t choose an already existing friend so you’d go and make a friend and pretty much their sole purpose is to do that stuff but at enid the day they’re still your friend, i just don’t recommend because a fwb doesn’t keep them from only seeing you like at the end of the day you’re just friends unless you talk about exclusivity but im just like all of you like i want to do it but know me and its gonna hurt me

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Anonymous #2 1d

True the exclusivity part is another hard part. Like we all said with attachment stuff, that just compounds the difficulty and potential hurt

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Anonymous #1 1d

hey at this point i just need a lobotomy so i can be a regular guy because always getting attached just isn’t it for me

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Anonymous #2 22h

That’d be so awkward tho like I can’t imagine myself going up to someone and being like “yes so let’s be friends AND we crack👀👀👀” my heart isn’t in it fr

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