
I understand your point but i think falling into your sexual needs is completely normal. All humans are wired to crave sexual connections and intimacy… so why is it shamed upon for people to have high body counts? I don’t think it has anything to do with a persons lack of seriousness or ability to be in a relationship…
It’s the same about STI’s and STD’s. Body count doesn’t matter. And this is coming from someone who got type 1 herpes genitally with my very first body and I was very protective. When I also have friends who have kissed and slept with MANNNYY men and not the best with protection but just gotten lucky and haven’t caught anything. Their only worry is pregnancy lol.
If you were given two buttons, one a 50% chance of killing you the moment you press it, and one with a 5% chance of killing you when you press it, I’m sure you’d pick the 5% button, they’re both capable of killing you but your odds of survival are much higher with one than they are the other
Being with someone who sleeps around but gets consistently tested and uses condoms is less risky than being with someone who doesn't sleep around but doesn't get consistently tested and/or doesn't use condoms because they don't sleep around. You can't get an STI from someone who knows they don't have one, you can't get an STI from someone who doesn't know they have one