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I don’t know how to tell my bf I don’t feel seen or loved by him without sounding like a pick me- or a girl who constantly needs reassurance. But I’ve been abandoned and left so many times before, I don’t know how to trust that he won’t do the same.
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Anonymous 2d

Tell him you don’t feel seen or loved straight up.. past trauma for trust or anything doesn’t change how you let yourself be to someone else ! If he doesn’t change for smth like that or even hear you out - he’s wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

He’s not intentionally trying to hurt me, he’s a hard working man… but he doesn’t respond in a timely manner and I’m up at 3:30 in the morning wondering if he even wants me. But then when we are together I feel so seen, so loved, so wanted…

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