if you keep waiting you may eventually settle it’s better to get out while you can , you may be scared to be alone but in reality u live this life alone you only got u and urself at the end of the day you need to learn to enjoy being by yourself and be comfortable in that. you shouldn’t be relying on codependency so don’t let that be the reason you don’t break up with him. anyways good luck with whatever u choose.

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To break up ans im just scared

6

I know expectations are hard, but you’re in a relationship with him not your family so it’s your choice. Tbh it seems like you have more reasons already in your mind to leave than stay. If you stay only bc you’re afraid no one else will love you, the hope it’ll get better, and you feel like he’s preventing personal growth, than the only person you hurt is yourself.

5

I feel ,Ike hes holding me back. He calls me constantly and I’ll tell him im with my friends but he will insist on talking anyways and I told him I want to get out of my comfort zone and go out with my friends like out to clubs and he said no because clubs are for ppl who want to hook up but all I do is sit in my dorm on my butt I feel so left out I want to do more

1

I know I have to but I’m so scared if what my family will think because they adore him but they don’t know that he never compliments me ans his friends are awful and does the bare minimum with supporting me

1

I CANT EVEN STAY FOR THE SEX BECAUSE IT SUCKS. No matter how much I talk to him about it it never gets any better and I always expect myself to enjoy sex going into it and then I never do. Im scared nobody else is gonna love me because I’m low-key a chud and I like K-pop like what normal person is gonna accept me for that what if nobody else will love me

1

I keep telling myself it will get better but If I’ve had to tell myself it will get better for the last year I don’t think it will get better

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