
buff women with broad shoulders are cool and sexy 🤷 plus estrogen totally does cushion out your hips, check out some transition timelines for evidence if you want. you could be desirable as a woman (especially To women) without having to meet some kind of conventional archetype of femininity, you know?
not saying this is necessarily the case for you, but for a long time I had myself tricked into believing that I didn’t actually want to transition because I would never be the type of glamorous twink I fantasized about becoming lol. and I’m still not ever gonna be that guy, a fantasy is a fantasy, but it turns out starting T drastically improved my life nonetheless and I do prefer being seen as a man and I didn’t have to change myself that much to achieve it. so I wanna encourage experimentation