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my step mom keeps comparing me to people…. Im trying my fcking hardest but whenever I say I struggled or I put a lot of work in she constantly says “well blah blah didnt have a hard time” Cool thanks for reminding me I suck 👍🏼
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Anonymous 1w

just be like “well blah blah has a good mom on her side who supports her and uplifts her”. you are letting her negativity spread to you and now you end up devaluing yourself when really you are trying your best and that’s what matters. not everything is easy for everyone, i’m sure you are really good at some things that the comparisons are not. also, try to shift your mentality from “i struggled/i put a lot of work in” to “im a hardworker and i perservered until i succeededd”, trust me.

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Anonymous 1w

“Mom I cut my hand off?” Well your cousin cut both hers off and she’s happy making sandwiches with her feet for the homeless!” 🦶 🥪

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I do you sound very emotionally intelligent. Thank you for taking the time to send this.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

you got this, i believe in you 🙏🙏 have a good day

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Thank you, You as well!

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