
Then there’s still like a 30% chance you’d get rejected in middle school by a girl that preferred a different hair color, make this your supervillain origin and define your personality around it, fall down social media rabbit holes and be radicalized by red pill losers, and spend your money on super chats in their streams asking about how to attract a high value woman while your chin gradually disappears.
Yes and no. It’s true that men place higher emphasis on beauty, whereas women will often “date down” if they benefit from the match in other ways, but this is not how people interact in the dating game anymore for the most part. Most interactions today are online, where women have more choices than they can reasonably consider in a finite time, and the best way to filter their options to a manageable number is to be hyper selective based on appearance. This is born out in study after study.