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Scared to get married one day because what if he ends up being a creep when he’s older and using an anonymous app to sext college aged girls and lie about his name/age/marital status. That would suck.
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Anonymous 1w

Fr that’s the scariest part

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Anonymous 1w

Damn this post needs more love and OP referring about YIkYak lol

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Anonymous 1w

Well that made me feel bad

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Anonymous 1w

Or you’ll never get married. And those thoughts will just stay delusional. It’s possible🤣

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Anonymous 1w

Hi OP, I understand your concerns. What many do not see is even finding a good person can have them change overtime. Life360 does not work overtime because people will find air gaps in areas or times one cannot be called to verify what they are doing. One example is a doctor who would disappear during surgery for 10 minutes and he was caught having sex with a nurse in some room. Life360 won’t catch that.

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Anonymous 1w

bad reason. choose someone you trust wouldn’t do that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

What happens is that people that seek to scale up in a job or running a business have a Machiavellian paradox where to get power requires to be evil. As the needs to make more money in time such practices to scale up has the guy basically go evil and lose respect with the wife and form emotional relationships with women at work that Life360 won’t track. Air gaps form and for years the guy drifted away.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

A woman should know the guy’s workplace because that way she can see this drift and moral issues he goes under to secure jobs and manage the politics at work. Often the shortcuts are taken seeking to form gangs at work that in time will have him question loyalty to a marriage.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I’m pretty sure most women who get cheated on don’t think it’d happen to them. That’s actually the point of my post. I’m scared of trusting a man and then him doing some weird shit without me knowing anyway.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

and it’s a very real fear that i too face daily, but having someone by my side that i trust with my life and safety makes it so much easier to trust them down the line too

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