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does anyone feel like the minute they tell their friends about a new relationship or a new job and then everything goes downhill afterwards? it’s happened to me and now i’m skeptical of who i tell, if i tell anyone at all
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Anonymous 5w

Wdym by "goes downhill"

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

like i’d tell my friends something that my bf did for me and within a day or two, the energy shifted and either he would be just nonchalant or upset at me when i didn’t do anything. it’s almost like a spiritual shift in energy that feels evil

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

So your guy friend starts acting different when you tell him something that your bf did for you? Sounds like he's jealous and potentially had/has a crush on you. He doesn't want to hear ab your bf so he distances himself and gets upset when you tell him ab your bf. That's my guess

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

no my friends are girls, but your statement could still be true about the jealousy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

“he” meant my bf at the time. his energy would shift towards me and it just never made sense to me

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