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Stop saying looks don’t matter. They really actually do. Not saying you have to be a model, but at least look presentable, healthy, have good hygiene, and take care of yourself by grooming.
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Anonymous 2w

Fr like I don’t need you to look chiseled I just don’t want to date someone who looks like they don’t shower 😔

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Anonymous 2w

Right like yea personality plays a part but what pulls u in at first IS looks

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Anonymous 2w

One of my standards.

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Anonymous 2w

i fear this should be normalized cz why am i getting disrespected for saying someone isnt my type lmao.

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Anonymous 2w

The truth hurts!

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Anonymous 2w

Fr getting with someone you don’t even find attractive is stupid to begin with, especially when it’s so normalized for woman to do. And in general not liking someone because of bad hygiene or not being your type isn’t bad. It’s only bad if your being racist about it

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Anonymous 2w

This is what I mean when I say that looks matter. You don’t need to be 6’5, or have Jason Momoa’s body. Just dress up well, style your hair, and clean yourself!!! Omg so many people do themselves dirtyyyy and don’t even realize it

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Anonymous 2w

period

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Anonymous 2w

yes! i’ve been dressing very nicely for work, and everyone has been acting more kind towards me, wants to talk to me more, and has given me free stuff. it’s 100% true

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Anonymous 2w

I love turning off my attraction, and reducing attention. I just wish it didn’t come with so much judgement. Like not everyone cares that anyone finds them attractive. Some people are just trying to make it through the week

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Anonymous 2w

like, it’s not that hard to shave the neckbeard…

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Anonymous 2w

I agree. But sometimes I do be like napoleon, “Josephine, I’ll be home in three days, don’t wash” 🥴

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Anonymous 2w

Foid has been here

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Anonymous 2w

Heavy on the good hygiene

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Anonymous 2w

Exactly

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Anonymous 2w

Absolutely

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Anonymous 2w

Well no fucking shit

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Anonymous 2w

If looks didn’t matter then eyesight wouldn’t be our dominant physical sensor

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

You can tell a lot by someone’s appearance. Like if they look messy and stuff.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 2w

Yee idgaf hahah. Like rn I’m not trying to date, just focus on my journey. So if I shaved or ironed my clothes it’s not too big of a deal

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2w

They matter kinda but that’s not the only part of the equation

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