Stop saying looks don’t matter. They really actually do. Not saying you have to be a model, but at least look presentable, healthy, have good hygiene, and take care of yourself by grooming.
Fr like I don’t need you to look chiseled I just don’t want to date someone who looks like they don’t shower 😔
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Anonymous2w
Right like yea personality plays a part but what pulls u in at first IS looks
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Anonymous2w
One of my standards.
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Anonymous2w
i fear this should be normalized cz why am i getting disrespected for saying someone isnt my type lmao.
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Anonymous2w
The truth hurts!
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Anonymous2w
Fr getting with someone you don’t even find attractive is stupid to begin with, especially when it’s so normalized for woman to do.
And in general not liking someone because of bad hygiene or not being your type isn’t bad. It’s only bad if your being racist about it
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Anonymous2w
This is what I mean when I say that looks matter. You don’t need to be 6’5, or have Jason Momoa’s body. Just dress up well, style your hair, and clean yourself!!! Omg so many people do themselves dirtyyyy and don’t even realize it
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Anonymous2w
period
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Anonymous2w
yes! i’ve been dressing very nicely for work, and everyone has been acting more kind towards me, wants to talk to me more, and has given me free stuff. it’s 100% true
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Anonymous2w
I love turning off my attraction, and reducing attention. I just wish it didn’t come with so much judgement. Like not everyone cares that anyone finds them attractive. Some people are just trying to make it through the week
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Anonymous2w
like, it’s not that hard to shave the neckbeard…
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Anonymous2w
I agree.
But sometimes I do be like napoleon, “Josephine, I’ll be home in three days, don’t wash” 🥴
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Anonymous2w
Foid has been here
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Anonymous2w
Heavy on the good hygiene
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Anonymous2w
Exactly
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Anonymous2w
Absolutely
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Anonymous2w
Well no fucking shit
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Anonymous2w
If looks didn’t matter then eyesight wouldn’t be our dominant physical sensor
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Anonymous#12w
You can tell a lot by someone’s appearance. Like if they look messy and stuff.
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Anonymous#142w
Yee idgaf hahah. Like rn I’m not trying to date, just focus on my journey. So if I shaved or ironed my clothes it’s not too big of a deal
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Anonymous#162w
They matter kinda but that’s not the only part of the equation