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I regret meeting my ex. Before him I was not really waiting on anything and I was letting life happen and if I met my person at 30, so be it, you can't miss what you don't know. But i actually liked him and now it's torture waiting to like someone again 🫠
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Anonymous 1d

Don’t regret your last relationship. Cherish the good times! I feel ya I had my fair share of ex gfs that it didn’t turn out well but we had plenty of great times.

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Anonymous 1d

Going through the same thing 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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Anonymous 1d

girllll (if other identifier just know this is my language), when i tell you I RELATE…i mean it. there’s actually two people that make me feel like this to this day, but one that REALLY made me fall for them for a whole year…all last year it was a back and forth wit them, and each time we saw each other in person my attachment got worse. now, there’s no chance in hell with them because i found out they found someone. :/ i have never felt like ive known someone in another life until i met them

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Anonymous replying to -> blellow_maple7 1d

😭☝🏼real , hard to do, but real

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

No like that man was literally my other half until he wasn't lmao I'm left to wander the earth in search of what I probably won't find again 😖. I also had like a year long crazy attachment and we've been no contact for several months now and I still think about him like every day, it's actually so annoying

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

100% extremely difficult. I still catch myself dipping below that line and talking shit sometimes but at the end of the day does good for no one.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

#He, actually showed up in my dreams again last week. However, the reason it’s had me in a tizzy is because this time , he spoke. In all the dreams i’ve had which are 3, with him, i only ever saw him. Like watching him exist, and with other girls. In this dream we were interacting and he was telling me “no no, i’ve always wanted you” 😀the way i FORCED myself to escape it and wake up cause i KNEW i didn’t need the delusion is crazy. 😪Im likely to see him again next month IRL at a concert im atten

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

attending* and i’m dreading it…he’s rumored to perhaps no longer be attending, and it sucks im PRAYING he won’t, but…we shall see 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

It would be so bad for me if he actually was in my dreams. Instead, I just day dream scenarios where I would just run into him by chance every night before I go to bed like a LOSER omg I hate it all it's so embarrassing lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

you guys also yearning for the wrong person?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

lol eventually time will turn you sour and bitter as you realize you’re better off without them. For example: i hate her fucking guts. sorry but the glasses WERE rose-tinted

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

oh nah don’t worry, i’ve already piece by piece realized the weird behaviors of him. some that really do disgust tf out of me and have me like “damn he really is a MAN” 🤨 and i realized his interactions with me were manipulative

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

bruh idk why i was listening to my heart when everyone was straight up telling me to my face “that’s manipulation: she is manipulating you”

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

My problem is I was never being manipulated or anything particularly bad, he was just overly insecure to the extent that he started acting out like a toddler and I knew it had to end before I started legitimately resenting him

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