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Confessions 19h
idk man i can’t imagine not being a girl being a man seems so lame you’re not even allowed to be fun and whimsical
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Confessions 19h
Being born female was the worst thing that could happen to me
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Anonymous 19h

and you gotta spend more time with other men that’s rough

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Anonymous 18h

Men are fun and whimsical. Not all men are meatheads

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Anonymous 19h

I’d rather not “be allowed” to be fun and whimsical than constantly feel objectified, get harassed, and feel like I can’t exist in my natural body without extreme judgement from both men and women

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Anonymous 19h

I love being fun and whimsical as a man it’s just on here I’m always assumed to be female and irl ppl just assume I’m gay bcs men can’t be happy and straight if

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Anonymous 18h

As a trans man I have the best and worst of both worlds

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Anonymous 19h

I mean just follow society’s expectations and no problems 👮‍♀️

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Anonymous 19h

I love being a woman, I could not imagine trying to be a man in this world

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

Can’t even have body hair without everyone looking down on me for it. Can’t talk to men unless they think they’re going to get something out of me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

stay fun and whimsical king

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

i mean yeah society sucks but i love all my girl friends and in my experience other girls are way more supportive and protective than not. a lot of it depends on the specific social environment you’re in i think

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I grew up alienated from other girls/women because I’m not conventionally attractive and I struggle with mental health. I wish I had a chance at feeling the “sisterhood” all the pretty girls talk about, I never got that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

nah society’s whack i do my own thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

i was never conventionally attractive and my mental health has always been horrible i just had other girls around me going through the same stuff. i kinda just learned to be content with myself and i don’t really operate based on social expectations i just kinda do what i want

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

Nothing wrong with queer baiting slime

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

which isn’t necessarily an easy mindset to develop but trying to do social expectations is just too exhausting so i stopped caring just from exhaustion i guess and it’s freeing and awesome! social expectations are arbitrary anyway

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