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I have a bf but he’s never eaten me out and I’m not going to leave him for it but if I go to someone JUST for that am I the bad guy 😭? I just want to enjoy a eater maybe 4-5 times a year
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Anonymous 7w

Tell him you’re gonna find someone else to eat it if he won’t

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Anonymous 7w

if you talked to him (like you said you did) and he promises and never actually fulfills that promise then it’s a bigger issue than just eating you out, your partners word should be able to be trusted, i’d break up with him and you deserve better

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Anonymous 7w

it’s very bad to pressure anyone into a sex act they’re not interested in, and it’s very bad to cheat just because your partner won’t perform a particular sex behavior but it’s totally reasonable to want a partner you’re sexually compatible with who enjoys the same types of sex you do, and on some level it’s his responsibility to set a clear boundary when he’s disinterested in something, instead of being like “yeah sure. some time”

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Anonymous 7w

I don’t think it’s crazy I’ll be your eater. Don’t listen to them you not a bad guy.

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Anonymous 7w

I have for like a year now and he keeps saying he will but never does and I told him I’m not marrying b someone who won’t please me orally

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

so it’s an issue of priorities and compromise. I think the reasonable options here are to either decide sexual incompatibility means the relationship has run its course & break up with him, or to make peace with the reality that he’s not going down on you

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Anonymous 7w

Okay so with more comfort and time passing did you find yourself liking to do it and or doing it more so for your partner ?

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Anonymous 7w

Right thank you

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